But, that's for another column and even another columnist.
I came across this entry in pianist/composer/father Noah Baerman's blog and, since he published it, I think it's fair to link to it. You should feel a bit better about life after reading this. The link to the full column is below.
Adoption Day and the Meaning of Love
Interpretation 1: Today, in a short civil ceremony at the Probate Court, my wife Kate and I went through the legal process of adopting our daughter, Rebecca. Really it’s just a formality among consenting adults – after all, she’s 23 and we have been family for years anyway. Fortunately it was more efficient than a trip to the DMV and we were able to get out of there before the parking garage charged us for staying more than an hour.
Read the rest here.